DEAR ABBY:
My husband of 39 years longer hugs me or shows me any affection. I have seen him through cancer and diabetes. We four grown children, and we have been seeing a for a year and a half. He is kind, generous and friendly, there are no compliments or any of the flirtatious banter used to enjoy.
He swears he’s not having an affair, he doesn’t know why he has changed. Perhaps you do?
— IN PHOENIX