DEAR ABBY:
husband of 39 years no longer hugs me or me any affection. I have seen him through cancer and diabetes. We have four grown children, we have been seeing a therapist for a year a half. He is kind, generous and friendly, but there are no compliments or of the flirtatious banter we used to enjoy.
swears he’s not having an affair, and he doesn’t why he has changed. Perhaps you do?
— IN PHOENIX