DEAR ABBY:
husband of 39 years no longer hugs me or me any affection. I have seen him through cancer and diabetes. We have four grown children, we have been seeing a therapist for a year and a half. He is kind, generous friendly, but there are no compliments or any of the flirtatious we used to enjoy.
He swears he’s not having an affair, and he doesn’t know why he changed. Perhaps you do?
— GRACE IN PHOENIX