DEAR ABBY:
My husband of 39 years no longer hugs me shows me any affection. I have seen him through cancer and diabetes. We have four children, and we have been seeing a therapist for a year and a half. is kind, generous and friendly, but there are no compliments or any of the flirtatious we used to enjoy.
He swears he’s not having an affair, and he doesn’t why he has changed. Perhaps you do?
— GRACE PHOENIX